Ex-lover
More often a dream of closure than of longing. Parting calmly means your heart has tied off a knot; struggling to hold on means something given is still unreturned.
Continue with WolhaHow does it change with the situation?
A dream of a former partner is more often not about that person. It reads as the self of that time — the hopes then, or a feeling never tied off — surfacing because you have met a similar situation now.
What if the dream felt bad?
A former partner turning cold, or leaving no matter how you hold on, is the process of confirming again what has already ended. If it repeats, look less at that relationship and more at whether the same spot is being pressed in your present one.
How does it connect to the chart?
In BaZi, a past tie remains in the seat before the luck pillar turned. That is why this dream clusters around the turn of a pillar — the previous phase rising once more before you cross into the new one.
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